ILLITERACY.
    Illiteracy is not a good excuse to make your child autonomous  when he/she cannot differentiate  his right from his wrong.
   Ben carson’s mother was an illiterate,  she didn’t see that as an excuse not to help her children out academically.  Ben Carson was the dullest in his class in his elementary school.  He was dull because he doesn’t study to exercise  his brain.  Mind you, no one was born with a certain seed of resilience. God created every one in a unique way,  he isn’t  a partial God.  No one  is dull,  one starts getting dull the moment  he stops studying.
   Ben carson’s mother  went on her knees  prayed to God,  sat her kids down and instructed them;
. You must read at least two books per week; her kids were reluctant,  but its something they can’t  run away from  because they had been instructed.
•’You mustn’t  watch TV except two programs,’  she knew TV was a great distraction to kids,  they can spend a whole day staring at the TV than studying their books.
•   She restricted her kids from playing outside with other kids.  She knew playing too much would result to dullness.
These instruction  an illiterate mother made, made them regular at the library and Ben carson became the world best neurosurgeon.  At first, they were reluctant and they tagged their mother as “wicked” then.  But now,  their mother is the best in the  world. 
  This was an illiterate mother.  How about you?
SINGLE PARENTHOOD.
I understand the fact that a single parent have to work to put food on the table,  you have to work to send your child to school,  you have to provide shelter,  there’s  no one to assist you,  these excuses are okay and crystal clear but they aren’t  good enough.  You should not be too busy to spend time with the children you bore.
    Ben carson’s  mother(Sonia carson)  was a single parent,  her work was stealing her from her kids, what did she do?  She had to rearrange.
God first, children next,  work follows.  She saw every disability as the ability to be strong,  courageous  and hardworking.
   A single parent could mold her kids to be the best in the world.  What people say doesn’t matter,  what naysayers  say to discourage you from being the best parent,  shouldn’t matter, what God says about disciplining a child is what matters.
We are the mastermind  Behind every misfortune that befall us.  Why, because we permitted it.
   Your children  should be your priority.

REASONS MOST KIDS TURN OUT TO BE TOUTS AND NUISANCE  IN  OUR SOCIETY.
•Parents fail to carry them along.
•Parents let their kids go the way they want.
•Parents forsake to do their best to make themselves available.
•Parents who hide their characters behind an air of nonchalance.  Who doesn’t give listening ear to their kids.
•A parent who isn’t  understanding and can’t help in the improvement of the child’s  social life.
•    You make decisions,  you make choices  but in future,  your  choices would make you.